For
All That Is Our Lives
©September
3, 2000
by
Rev. Marti Keller
Timed,
one supposes, with the Labor Day holiday, this past week the U.S.
Postal Service announced the results of a national workplace study
showing that “going postal” is a myth. A bad rap. Postal workers are
no more likely to physically assault, sexually harass or verbally
abuse their co-workers than are other employees despite the high profile
incidents of letter carriers killing fellow workers or themselves.
However,
if the study put to rest the notion of postal workers as imploding
under the stress of their work, dissolving into insane violence,
it did confirm some of the TV stereotypes of malcontent letter carriers
such as Newman on “Seinfeld” and Cliff on “Cheers.” People who work
for the post office are not happy, to put it mildly, in their jobs.
They are twice as likely to say they would change jobs for the same
pay and benefits. They are more likely to file formal grievances
and to distrust their bosses. And while it has proven to be untrue,
they are six times more likely than others in the national work
force to believe they are unsafe, at risk of violence from their
co-workers.
This
rate of workplace restlessness and disgruntlement is especially
significant because the Postal Service is America’s second largest
civilian employer, behind only Wal-Mart. That’s a lot, a huge lot,
of dissatisfied, dispirited people whose work does not cause
them to give thanks and praise for all that is their lives. Not
the working part.
Quite
the opposite.
If
it has now been proven that post offices are not literal war zones
filled with homicidally enraged employees, they still may be battlegrounds
of another sort for the people who work there. Workers doing battle
with boredom day after day. In a newspaper story on tedious jobs,
mail clerk Kim Nixon said that sorting thousands of pieces of mail
is “ boring, boring, very boring.”
She
is joined by people like teenager Wesley Marrs who complains that
his part-time job of filing e-mail resumes is “the same thing over
and over, all day. And others like private eye Jim Bearden who describes
his job as “ hours of sheer boredom separated by seconds of sheer
terror.”
Alan
Carbuba, who founded what has been called a semiserious, semispoof
The Boring Institute in Maplewood, New Jersey, says his website
gets 80,000 or more hits every month from people seeking help with
humdrum, much of it experienced during their working hours. People
who take to calling in sick or coming in late to avoid monotony,
and, who, if the tedium continues unabated, become depressed on
a much thicker and deeper level. Work may not be physically
dangerous for them, but psychically life threatening.
Now
on the job tedium is nothing new, anthropologists point out. Early
humans had to cope with it, while waiting hours for an animal--potential
dinner--to come to a water hole. They were isolated, they were made
to keep still, to keep quiet. But the reward was clear. Their own
survival was at stake. First the kill and then the food that would
keep them alive.
Work
was associated with meeting an indisputable human need, indeed a
need of all living things. In the hierarchy of human needs, without
a doubt the need for food, water, and shelter, and the work
that goes into acquiring them, comes first. And some safety and
security in the work we do to provide for ourselves and those dependent
upon us. I wouldn’t feel right this Labor Day weekend, most especially
as the granddaughter of the man who founded the Ladies’ Garment
Workers Union in Boston, if I didn’t back up and point out the basic
issues that were at stake and remain at stake around this national
observance.
While
more than 100 years after the first Labor Day there is still some
doubt as to who actually proposed the holiday for workers, it is
generally accepted that Peter J. McGuire, a carpenter and co-founder
of the American Federation of Labor, first suggested a day to honor,
he said, those “who from rude nature have delved and carved all
the grandeur we behold.” Behind these lofty, even spiritual words,
was his own personal history as the son of a poor Irish immigrant
living in New York City in the Civil War Years. Eleven year old
Peter sold papers on the street, shined shoes and ran errands while
his father was away in the Union army. Peter was not unusual. Thousands
of immigrant children had to go to work, many of them in factories
where they labored for ten to twelve hours a day, stopping only
for a short time to eat.And unable to miss work even if they were
sick or exhausted,. because there were thousands of people waiting
to take their places.
Young
Peter became an apprentice in a piano shop to learn a trade, and
while it was a better job than some of the others he had already
had, he still worked long hours for low pay. In the spring of 1872,
Peter McGuire and 10,000 other workers went out on strike and marched
through the streets, demanding for starts a decrease in the long
work day.
This
event convinced Peter of the need for an organized labor movement
for the future of worker’s rights, a conviction that got him labeled
as a “disturber of the public peace,” and chronically unemployed.
He moved around, starting carpenter’s unions in St. Louis and Chicago.
The idea of organizing workers around their trades, an old medieval
system really, spread nationwide. Factory workers, dock workers,
tool makers, dressmakers, all began to demand and get their rights
to an eight hour work day, a secure job, and a future for themselves
and their families. And on Tuesday, September 5, 1882 in New York
City, the first Labor Day demonstration and picnic was held..
Needless
to say, the creation of a Labor Day holiday did not put an end to
all labor problems, or indeed, define for all time what those problems
are. If my grandfather’s story is any indication, ironical twists
and complications very quickly set in. Grandpa Louis, who came over
in steerage as a young teen to work for a few years and then return
home to his parents, fell in love with my grandmother and deliberately
missed his return voyage home. He worked in an overcrowded, unsafe
, tinderbox clothing factory and then organized a union for the
mostly female dressmakers.
When
he married and started his family, he himself became a clothing
factory owner, an employer instead of worker. And at one point in
the years he manufactured coats, his female employees went out on
strike with the union he created. And picketed his business.
Perhaps
that is one reason, that and the times I happened to come to adulthood
in, that I started with the assumption that work should be at least
somewhat safe and decent paying . Conditions, I am acutely aware,
that have still not been secured in sweat shops and poultry plants
worldwide, or closer than we may want to believe. And that women
had the right to work to support and to fulfill themselves, a right,
as many of us already know, that is being denied at this moment
in places like Afghanistan, where the religious leadership, the
fundamentalist Taliban-- saying that Islam completely forbids women
from working --have just recently shut down bakeries run by widows,
who are among the poorest of the poor.
That
these unfair and dangerous conditions still exist is the first priority
for any Labor Day reflection,. And yet there are other issues around
work that come up once these basic workplace needs are met. Instead
of physical damage, there are soul wounds. And crises of
the spirit..
That
a job could and would cause spiritual pain and suffering was nothing
I would have imagined as I entered the workplace. For the women
around me, including my own mother( who, again, ironically built
her early career on studying the future of recreation and leisure,
in a world, she imagined would be made up of less work time and
more free time-- not the current marathon of overwork and lack of
vacation time) work was at least an imagined source of liberation
and spiritual blossoming. Those of us who is the early 1970’s sat
in those small chairs in our children’s co-op nursery schools dreaming
and talking of the day when we could get what we saw as real work,
that real work would be life-enhancing, not life-diminishing. We
were ready to go.
In
those women’s group meetings over banana bread and herbal tea, there
was plenty of talk about the tedium sometimes and the emotional
difficulties of marriage and parenthood, But, I swear, not a whisper
even of worry about what work life might possibly ever lack in terms
of meaning and purpose, the spiritual underpinnings of the lives
we lead..
We
were worried about how we could navigate the world of relationships
and the world of work, as Denise Levertov wrote in her “Prayer for
Revolutionary Love,” asking that “ a woman not ask a man to leave
meaningful work to follow her... that a man not ask a woman to leave
meaningful work to follow him.” .
While
we dreamed and plotted , inched or leapt into the workforce, the
males around us, especially those from the generation before us,
were, it turns out, having quite the opposite response to and expectation
of work. At the same time, as Sylvia Ann Hewett wrote in her book,
The Lesser Life: The Myth of Women’s Liberation in America,
the men of the fifties generation on had come to feel oppressed
by their role as breadwinner, no longer believing necessarily that
work had meaning at all.
In
the parallel universe of men at work, there was ample evidence that
while there may have been some degree of external reward for them,
underneath, for many of them, as Biff complained in Arthur Miller’s
Death of a Salesman ,” it’s a measly manner of existence.
To get on a subway on hot mornings in the summer. To devote your
whole life to keeping stock or making phone calls, or selling or
buying....when all you really desire is to be outdoors with your
shirt off.”
C.
Wright Mills had an even harsher assessment of the work lives of
these generations of American men in particular, “ ulcerated people,”
he observed, ”of uneasy conscience, miserably at war with their
tormented selves.”.
And
in those tense years of the second wave of the women’s movement,
Herb Goldberg, reacting in his book The Hazards of Being Male,
recorded the bitter comments of a 57 year old college professor:
The famous male chauvinistic pigs who neglect their wives, underpay
their women employees are ruling the world are literally slaves,
out there picking cotton, sweating, swearing, taking lashes from
the boss, working 50 hours a week. The two sexes going at each
other, while the deficiencies of the economic system and workplace
hummed along.
I
was fortunate, from the beginning, to be doing what from the outside
anyway, was always labeled and usually felt like “meaningful” work,
work in cultural change and social reform. Unless you count those
summer jobs scooping Swenson’s mint chip ice cream ,or waiting tables
in a senior citizen’s complex-- which even then involved obliging
them on Sunday evenings with double portions of creme de menthe
in their parfait glasses. Nonetheless, about a decade and a half
into my professional working life, I entered a workplace where the
outer mission was once again laudable and unimpeachable, yet one
that became almost immediately a source of incredible stress and
hurt, as abusive as any dysfunctional family. A time and place of
crazy-making and guilt and recrimination, and time-outs in restrooms
and parked cars from what I now realize was systematic emotional
abuse. Sleepless nights. Wasted weekends..
And
then I finally gave up this work that was good , righteous
even, but a job that was killing me. No question it took
its toll on my body: exhaustion, stomach aches, infections and all,
but the damage to my spirit, that which gives us all hope, our inner
glue, was much more acute. As a matter of fact, on many levels,
I became un-glued.
And
while I did seek professional counseling, from a man who specialized,
by the way, in workplace emotional abuse, I never even considered
looking to my Unitarian Universalist spiritual community for support
or counsel, never called the ordained minister, considering this
employment crisis an inappropriate subject for his pastoral care.
There
was the world of work, and the world of faith and spiritual practice,
and the two seemed utterly disconnected. Somehow my domestic life
seemed connected to my spiritual life, perhaps because things like
birth, marriage, and death are typically religious sacraments, considered
to have a sacred role in our lives-- and work has not been recognized
in the same way. That divided understanding continued for me as
I went through seminary. We were exposed to and trained in the theological
and pastoral issues around what we commonly call life passages,
but not around work, that activity that is universal, a common human
experience, over our lifetimes.
Presbyterian
Minister Steven Jacobsen had a similar experience moving from his
business career in insurance brokerage and real estate to his work
in the church. What is the real world? he found himself asking.
The world of banks, mortgages, pension funds, time clocks and computers
or the world of prayer, ancient scriptures, homilies and hymns?
He was noticing that as a parish minister, the “heart” work of Sunday
morning, was not connecting, as he wrote, with the work done by
the people’s hands on Mondays.
In
a study he did with a group of highly esteemed leaders in secular
organizations asking them what role, if any, spirituality, played
in their work lives, he began to discover how often the issues people
struggle with--spiritually-- involves in some way jobs, money and
vocation, and how little he was doing, indeed religious institutions
were doing, to integrate faith and work.
From
the beginnings of my vocational ministry, I have seen how true this
is. While I have been asked to listen and counsel in the more traditional
arenas of marriage preparation, parent-child and other relationship
problems, illness and death, a large number of concerns that I heard
, for example, in the first congregation I served as an intern and
acting minister , involved work. A long time midlevel Coca Cola
manager who was feeling increasingly distanced from and dissatisfied
with the career she had given more than 20 years to, to the point
of soul-sickness, as she told me. A younger man who found
himself routinely road-enraged on the way to and from his workplace,
unable to see any connection between what he perceived as his true
self and the self he became on a daily basis. Women and men on the
verge of retirement, or already retired, experiencing a loss of
center once they left their jobs. People struggling with whether
they had invested too much or too little of their sense of worth
in the work they did Whether the work they did was consistent or
at war with their essential values. Whether it robbed them of their
dignity, or enhanced it. All of them apologetic and initially
reluctant to use the resources of their religious community to held
them rediscover their sources of value and meaning . Because their
crisis of spirit, again, was associated with work and not with a
part of their life, more worthy, in their view, of spiritual guidance
and support.
Again,
Steve Jacobsen, in his study and resulting book, Hearts to God,
Hands to Work: Connecting Spirituality to Work, has done the
valuable work of finding scriptural justification in the
Jewish and Christian traditions-- that ones that formatively shaped
most of us-- for linking spirituality and work, based on the way
the issue has been understood for at least the last 3,000 years.
He
points out that in the Jewish Bible, Adam was the first human figure
to appear and before anything else is said about him, we hear he
has work to do:” God took Adam and Eve and put them in the garden
of Eden to till it and keep it. And to name the other creatures
in that garden. Moses, the fugitive shepherd, finds the burning
bush, not while he is in a temple, but in the midst of his
daily work. Jewish theology is bound up in the belief in a covenant
between God and humans based on the notion that creation-- the material
world-- is good, that humans have a responsibility to earthly life
-- to a lifetime of good works, good work. As Psalm 104 declares:”
People go out to their work, and to their labor until the evening.
Oh Lord, how manifold are your works, in wisdom you have made them
all, the earth is full of your creatures.”
In
Christian scripture, Jesus is clearly identified as a worker of
wood, a carpenter, and his disciples also have vocational identities
and the dignity of this work: the fishermen learned lessons about
the Kingdom of God and the human project in it while casting their
nets. In these texts, sometimes people must leave their secular
vocations to pursue deeper relationships with God , and sometimes
their vocations are the vehicles for revelation and spiritual
growth..
Our
Reform Protestant roots in particular promote a theology , the Protestant
Ethic, where people strive for the glory of God by activity in the
affairs of this world. That the work of a holy person , as one writer
put it, is not the work of monks in a monastery, but of monks everywhere,
all the time: working, buying, selling, meeting people. The priesthood
of all believers. For those among us drawn to Buddhism, one of the
steps on the eightfold path to enlightenment is Right Livelihood,
occupations that promote life instead of destroying it..
Our
religious traditions, new and old, do provide perspectives,
even wisdom on the life of work as complex as the ones that we draw
on to create our own theologies of creation , social justice , death
and life after death. There is no single one that I am here to lay
out this morning. Today I would simply suggest that as a religious
community we pay attention to what poet David Whyte has called the
difficulty and drama of work, and the role it plays in our soul’s
journey, what he calls the indefinable essence of our spirit
and being.
And
in the words of Rev. Steve Jacobsen, to assume that people care
about what they do for a living. To believe we are called to lives
of meaning. To agree that we may come here in part to find a sanctuary
from life stresses and the challenges of work, but also to prepare
each other for the real tasks we have ahead of us.
For
all that is our life, for work and its rewards, we
come with praise and thanks to build the common good and make our
own days glad. © 2000 Marti Keller
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